People often ask me why I chose to homeschool my two children. We
aren't living on a farm or super religious or anything of the sort. I
was encouraged by a teacher, when I got frustrated with my son's old
charter school, which did not have the patience or the proper training
to handle my then 8 year old.
My son frequently got in
trouble for doing things that enraged his teacher, such as correcting
her, sitting under the desk to do his work and losing is homework (which
he did EVERY night) in his desk or backpack. During a parent-teacher
conference, she told me my child was irresponsible and had behavioral
issues and suggested that I have him tested for ADD. She went to the
principal and asked to have him removed from her class. So we did, and
skipped him to the 4th grade.
In Mrs. C's class he was able
to do the work (under the desk with a teacher that was more lenient),
fact check the teacher as long as he had proof to back it up, and who
took his homework assignments after school when I handed them in. She
was a saint. One day after school so came to me with a concern. While
the 4th grade suited my child academically, he was not fitting in
socially. He would only talk to the teacher and staff that he felt
comfortable with, and would read the ocean life encyclopedia during
recess. She suggested alternative schooling (great ANOTHER school, we
had changed twice already...) Then she asked if I had ever thought of
homeschooling him. She thought it would be a great solution for a child
that was bright but socially uncomfortable.
I went home and
cried. Then I got on the internet and started researching homeschooling.
OMG there were soooo many techniques, theories and debates for and
against. I talked to my husband (who was reluctant)and eventually we
decided on homeschooling. I found a great program online called K12.com,
it was expensive, so much so that it nearly deterred me. Then I
realized that they offered an online public school option as well. FOR
FREE!!!
I had an interview over the phone with an advisor
and was set up to meet with a teacher. The teacher was great and
listened to my concerns about my child, and he was tested for placement.
Within 2 weeks all of our paperwork was done and we had received all of
the curriculum, art supplies, science stuff and a computer! This
program is great because it comes with teachers guides that help you
every step of the way, and outstanding teacher support. We stuck with the program for 3 years.
Long story short we found out shortly afterwards that my son was on the
Autism Spectrum and was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome when he was
9. My son is now 12 and we are now homeschooling independently, which far better suits our needs. Homeschooling was the best thing I could have ever done for him. It
took awhile, but he is becoming more social as time goes on. And I'm
proud to report that although he does correct me, he no longer does his
work under his desk....at least not everyday....
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